So what’s our day look like? Some folks ask me (incredulously) how on earth it is possible to work full time and home-school. It took us several months of working it out but we’ve finally gotten into a grove that works for all of us. I thought I’d share it here so that you can gets some ideas for your own family.
When I started this post, I though I’d do a whole weekly overview, but apparently I’m wanting to get way too detailed! I’ll do a couple of days at a time.
Sunday:
7am-3pm: Work
Since I work for a church, the kids come with me and they serve too. My son does tech for our children’s program, and my daughter is on the praise team for the children’s ministry. This means that most of the time, they are either in class or helping while I work in the auditorium with the main services. On the odd day that one of them isn’t on the schedule, they hang out in the green room with a book or a Nintendo DS (depending on what they’ve earned).
3pm-10pm: Free time
We hang out at home. Laundry, tv, playing with friends, Wii, etc. It’s our down day!
Monday
7:30 – 10:00 Chores and free time
My kiddos have a set of chores that must be done before 10 am. It includes breakfast – everyone does their own thing for breakfast in my house because we all get up at different times and have different obligations and needs in the morning. For years I tried to get us all around the table and it was just miserable. This way works WAY better for us. I generally wake up at 7:30 and use my phone while laying in bed to check my email, Facebook, read the news, ready my bible and check the weather. I enjoy feeling like I’m being lazy by staying in bed, but I’m getting mentally ready for my day. It’s just one way that I find time for me! By 8:30 I’m out of the house for a run/walk. I get home, shower and have breakfast and we start school at 10 am.
10am-Noon: Lessons
We have a set of items that we do every day: Math, Reading, Copywork, Journaling and Bible. Then each day we add one “special”. Monday is History. Curriculum – We use Math-U-See for math, Ambleside Online for Reading and Copywork, and I’m using Sword Fighting for Bible. I give them a journal starter (google it!) and they have to write a paragraph every day from that. For History, we are reading This Country of Ours by H.E. Marshall, another Ambleside Online recommendation. It’s written like a story rather than a dry text and the kids love it.
I use the Charlotte Mason approach to my homeschooling, where the children read the books and then they narrate it back to me – showing that they’ve learned it. Occasionally I do a google search and pull up some sort of worksheet about what they are learning. I do this primarily for my daughter who really likes to see that 100 on the top of her page! I use the CM Organizer at the Simply Charlotte Mason website to organize and log exactly what we do every day – it’s a marvelous tool and really saves me time and energy. And let me tell you, as a single, working, home school mom, anything that saves you time and energy is worth it’s weight in GOLD! I’m fortunate enough to live in Michigan where there are few requirements about home school documentation, but I want to be as detailed as I can about what the kids have learned because it helps me make sure that nothing falls through the cracks. It also ensures that I’ll have a ready transcript anytime it’s needed.
Noon – 1:00 Lunch and free time
1-2 Lessons
Here’s where we finish up anything that needs more work or follow a path we found interesting that might not have been on the schedule. A cool idea for a science project that came from someone’s reading, watching a related Mythbuster or History channel show on the Tivo that relates to lessons…that sort of thing.
3-6 Free time/Errands
The kiddos have another chunk of chores that have to completed by 5 pm (to coincide with the days I get home from work at 5). Once they are finished with them, they have free time while I do general housework or errands. I’m blessed that they are old enough to be home without me while I do this.
6 Dinner
Preparing dinner is a full family affair. Everyone cooks. It’s a lifeskill that everyone needs. I guess I could call this “Home Economics”
I generally sneak in some random lessons during this time – chemistry or maybe some math (measuring is great for practicing fractions!). Right now we are cooking things we found from YouTube on Depression Cooking so we’ve been talking about history and the Depression while we cook. Get this – my kids think peeling potatoes is COOL. Ain’t that a hoot?
7 – 10 Chores and free time
Yes, another chunk of chores and then free time. We tend to play the Wii (Rock Band is the BOMB!) or watch TV together. Sometimes we go our separate ways for this (I’m on the computer, they might be playing games…etc) it all depends.
10 Bedtime for the kids.
We do “thankful” every night by going around the room and asking what each person is thankful for that day. It’s a great way to end the day.
10:30-Midnight
This is when I finish up anything, ready for tomorrow and my own downtime. I play Star Wars Galaxies on the computer with friends maybe twice a week, or I read, or just go to bed early. lol. Without my own recreation time, I’d have nothing to give to the kids or anyone else. It’s important.
I love Mondays because it’s one of my days off. If you work a traditional job, this may be what your Saturday or Sunday looks like. I try to get all the little nagging stuff off my plate on Monday so that my other days, which are FAR busier than this one, don’t get overwhelming.
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